Actions that make my wife happy

Actions I made that make my wife happy

I am happy to share to all husbands my experienced about managing my life, especially making my wife happy, comfortable and secure day by day. Simple things I work out everyday which made my wife feel happy, before anything else never ever forget to respect  and show love to her. Here are some of guidelines I did daily to make her happy because according to the quotes I’ve read “A happy wife is a happy life”.

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1. Greeting her with “I love you” make her feel being loved

This is what I did everyday with my wife, greeting her every morning when I wake up most of the time at 5:00 o’clock in the morning. Looking at her face while she still sleeping makes me smile, whispering to her ear “I love you Mamii Ko” early in the morning makes her awake look at my eyes and smile replied to me “I love you too so much Dadii Ko”. Not only in the morning also in evening before we go to sleep have I always told her that magic word to make her feel more comfortable with me.

2.       Hugs and Kisses

I always used my hands, body and mouth to make her feel that I care and love her so much. Embracing her after my work, full of hugs and kisses with the magic word “I love you” can remove all the problems as well as her tired body, it restores her condition.

3.       Help her do the household chores

I learned to control myself, self discipline and was able to achieve my goal of doing hard work. I took care of her household chores and let her stay / take some rest. This is a new to me because I am not doing household chores since being young but now I noticed her happiness when she saw me doing her job at home which I feel that she was being loved. With a sincere willingness to give a helping hand as well as asking her how I can lift her burden. This gesture applies to more than yard work, but being in tune with her needs emotionally and spiritually, as well. Figure out her facial reaction, looking at my eyes and smiles at me while cleaning the house makes me feel happy too.

4.       Patience and forgiveness

Learned to have more patience, she don’t want to be corrected, easily hurt when she heard shouting at her and never try to argue with her because it’s hard to win against her. Letting her talk want she wants and try to comment or talk to her in private in a soft manner not to offend her. She always thought that she is right so let her be until she realizes that mistakes with her own. Always forgive her mistakes, correct her when she is in a good mood and add hugs and kisses when you correct her.

5.       Embrace and hold her hands in public

My wife loves to be seen that I am holding her hands in public, I am a shy type person who is not a showy one especially in public, don’t want to be publicly seen holding or embracing her hands before when I was not change, but for now I did my best not to be shy for her happiness. I conquer my fear and now every time we walk in the middle of millions of people on the street or anywhere it feels good to be proud of your wife and so with yourself. Expressing my feeling to her makes her feel more comfortable and secure, he smiles at me always when I grab her hands or embrace her even a lot of people are watching.

(I love to share to all this Bible verse about husband and wife)

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Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (N.I.V)

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 in this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

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