Actions that make my wife happy

Actions I made that make my wife happy

I am happy to share to all husbands my experienced about managing my life, especially making my wife happy, comfortable and secure day by day. Simple things I work out everyday which made my wife feel happy, before anything else never ever forget to respect  and show love to her. Here are some of guidelines I did daily to make her happy because according to the quotes I’ve read “A happy wife is a happy life”.

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1. Greeting her with “I love you” make her feel being loved

This is what I did everyday with my wife, greeting her every morning when I wake up most of the time at 5:00 o’clock in the morning. Looking at her face while she still sleeping makes me smile, whispering to her ear “I love you Mamii Ko” early in the morning makes her awake look at my eyes and smile replied to me “I love you too so much Dadii Ko”. Not only in the morning also in evening before we go to sleep have I always told her that magic word to make her feel more comfortable with me.

2.       Hugs and Kisses

I always used my hands, body and mouth to make her feel that I care and love her so much. Embracing her after my work, full of hugs and kisses with the magic word “I love you” can remove all the problems as well as her tired body, it restores her condition.

3.       Help her do the household chores

I learned to control myself, self discipline and was able to achieve my goal of doing hard work. I took care of her household chores and let her stay / take some rest. This is a new to me because I am not doing household chores since being young but now I noticed her happiness when she saw me doing her job at home which I feel that she was being loved. With a sincere willingness to give a helping hand as well as asking her how I can lift her burden. This gesture applies to more than yard work, but being in tune with her needs emotionally and spiritually, as well. Figure out her facial reaction, looking at my eyes and smiles at me while cleaning the house makes me feel happy too.

4.       Patience and forgiveness

Learned to have more patience, she don’t want to be corrected, easily hurt when she heard shouting at her and never try to argue with her because it’s hard to win against her. Letting her talk want she wants and try to comment or talk to her in private in a soft manner not to offend her. She always thought that she is right so let her be until she realizes that mistakes with her own. Always forgive her mistakes, correct her when she is in a good mood and add hugs and kisses when you correct her.

5.       Embrace and hold her hands in public

My wife loves to be seen that I am holding her hands in public, I am a shy type person who is not a showy one especially in public, don’t want to be publicly seen holding or embracing her hands before when I was not change, but for now I did my best not to be shy for her happiness. I conquer my fear and now every time we walk in the middle of millions of people on the street or anywhere it feels good to be proud of your wife and so with yourself. Expressing my feeling to her makes her feel more comfortable and secure, he smiles at me always when I grab her hands or embrace her even a lot of people are watching.

(I love to share to all this Bible verse about husband and wife)

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Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (N.I.V)

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 in this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

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Living A Happy Life With Family

Living A Happy Life With Family

As a husband to my beautiful wife for almost 5 years I haven't make her feel so especial for long time since we got married because of having priorities such as working daily to have money to buy for our daily needs. Waking up every morning preparing for work, the same activities day by day and it is a life cycle of being a human. I forgot the value of relationship as spouses we need to have time for each other; talk about inspirational things; romances and happy memories even go for a date sometimes due to tired body from work.

Figure 1 - Together with my wife.

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(Sister)

Excuses granted because it's a valid reason, working the whole day is true tiring that is why most husband's and some of wives out there can't manage their family. Most workaholic spouses such as businessmen have their nanny to take care for their children because they do not have enough time to take care of them which result to spoiled children. I do have different situation because for the past five (5) years of being married, we haven't blessed with child yet and we still aiming of having one.

How to make your relationship grow stronger?

This is all about my personal experienced I am sharing to you and hope it may help you as two (2) person united by God in front of the altar or of the priest who made promises to love each other in times of happiness & sadness, in sickness and in health. But most relationship forgot their promises and turn into a broken relationship due to several and individual reasons. Let's go back to the question about how can we maintain a good relationship with our partner in life and make it grow stronger.

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(Sister)

Well, as a changed husband I am making all the best to make my wife as a priority instead of doing hard work just to earn money. Yes, we can do it and it is possible to do that all you need is to manage your time well. Choosing a priority is a choice of yours as what others said "If there’s a will there’s a way" in Tagalog "Kung gusto maraming paraan, kung ayaw maraming dahilan". This statement is more than a hundred percent true, agreeable and it always appears on my mind from the day I changed my life.

Make your partner in life a priority for you to grow stronger and I'm sure you will live a happy life for both of you. A priority doesn't mean you will leave or stop working so that you can focus on loving your partner, that's not the best way instead managing your working time and family time it's a multi-tasking method. Professional people with happy family relationship were doing these habits.

I am a manager, not a company manager but a manager of my own life. Why do I claim that title? Because I now know how to manage my time for my work and my wife, managing priorities from time of wake up in the morning until the time of sleep in the evening. I am happy of the result as well as my wife, no more quarrels, heart breaks and conflicts of life because we did managed our time properly. Huge difference against the past situation of our relationship which we almost have a daily quarrel, we do have conflicts of schedule, having different priorities which results to a chaotic world of relationship. We've reached the level of broke up for several times, daily quarrel which turn into physical. There were plenty of tears dropping on her eyes as well as mine until I figured out the main cause of this chaotic relationship.

What is the main reason why most relationship doesn’t work?

This is really true, you must be aware if you want to turn your bad relationship into a good one and a happy life together. Let God be the center of your relationship and I assure you will feel that happiness you both are longing for. God alone can make you feel complete, satisfies your needs and can give you peace of mind. He can fill your heart with love and patience which are the main factor to live a happy life, God is the source of everything. The only reason why most relationship doesn't work because both of them doesn't know God and they didn't recognize the almighty as the center of their life and relationship.

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Where can we find God?

Bible, the bible is the word of God the good news was written in this book. The guide for our daily living, the answer to all questions in your mind, peace of mind, encouragement, make you a strong person, happy and fulfill everything that is lacking on your life. For God is love and can love unconditionally to anyone.